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Yes I have plans, actually it's truer to say that P and I have plans.

We plan to try and move in together in about a year's time, when my degree is finished and P is on placement, if circumstances allow.

We plan to get engaged to be married soon after her degree is finished, and within a year or two get married and buy a house together.

It feels strange, but really good to be able to make plans like this. I decided I wanted to marry P quite a while ago now, and it's something that we have discussed lots. We have discussed the whole of our future together lots. We both know we've found the right person, and we both want to be with each other for the rest of our lives. We've found each other, and we're never going to let each other go.

Part of me felt strange thinking about this, knowing that I've only been with her, only known her now for 8 and half months. Then the topic came up with my Dad in conversation, we discussed it and I talked it through with P some more. Now it doesn't feel strange any more, it just feels right.

I know how I feel, it's an absolute certainty, and I know P feels the same way. I know that there could be nothing better than getting to spend the rest of my life with her, and I want nothing else. I look forward to asking her to marry me, and I already have ideas in place, and while I know what her response will be, it won't make asking any less fun. Of course that as we have decided is a few years away yet, but it's definitely something to look forward to.

And all that knowledge just feels good, indescribably but definitely good.

Date: 2004-07-14 10:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ciradis.livejournal.com
It almost sounds as though your Dad and I brainwashed you...sorry. :)

Date: 2004-07-15 06:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] same-difference.livejournal.com
Sorry, it could be worse though, I could have made it sound like I brainwashed you.

Date: 2004-07-14 10:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yamamaya.livejournal.com
Everyone is getting houses and/or getting engaged at the moment. Scary.

Congratulations, glad to hear you're happy.

Date: 2004-07-14 10:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elmyra.livejournal.com
*runs and hides* Congrats and all the best though!

Date: 2004-07-14 01:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kipperfish.livejournal.com
Yay!! :-) I just hope it turns out better for you than it did for me when I first got to that stage!! (for information - the person who I first thought that with is now married to a guy from Luxembourg!!). I wish you all the best!! :-)

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