Dom's Live Journal

I'm gonna comment on the love thing coz that's what I feel most qualified to talk about given that I probably have exactly the same view on faith as you, but can't/don't want to talk about it much. So, as for the love thing, the fear of losing each other, it's all perfectly normal, at least, I hope it is because I went through the exact same things. I don't know what I did wrong first time round, apart from allow her out of range of comforting for an extended duration and somebody else took over my role. Other than that, I don't know. With Morwenna, I think I pushed to hard to get to the situation I was in before, and she quite frankly didn't want to get that far, that quick, and maybe not at all. With indigogecko, I think I'm getting it right. I'm being authoritative without being pushy, allowing enough space, but not enough to let someone else in, and above all, making sure that I'm thinking about both of us, rather than just me, or just her. It's unhealthy to think of just her all the time!! :-)